[sabelheat]

''Sucks for them you say, that will never happen to me because I can spot a fake, or my favorite one "I know who I talk to and they are not fakes." If you believe these lies these lies well then guess what? You actually are a complete idiot that deserves what is coming to them since scammers and these fakes getting off by pretending to be couples, women, or bulls get smarter by learning from mistakes everytime they are busted so that they people like Ally can nit recognie them right away which makes it easier to get even more victims.''

I couldn't agree more, my point is just because you get on a webcam and show that you are indeed the gender and race that you say you are, yay fuckin yay :P, doesn't mean you're still not an objectifying spaz who only cares about getting their genitals off and wouldn't know an abuser if he/she came up and explicitly said it to their face because they are in want of any emotional intelligence. I suppose some people are so dumb on here that it needs to be pointed out you need to thoroughly get to know someone before you actually meet them, but hopping on a web came is hardly thorough is it now.

Noone on this website is after a serious relationship where you get treated like a fellow human, the ones they say they do have their head firmly stuck up their ass and have no sense of a what a deep and true relationship even looks like, if they did they would just do it down the normal avenue not in some very fucked up back alley fetish site on the interweb. Fetishising is the name of the game, so when Joe and Jane Bloggs start getting all high and mighty it just smacks of unpalatable arrogance, are the fakers any worse than the serious people? Only marginally, at least they know they're talking shit unlike the others who take their delusions into a real train wreck of an encounter. 'I'm da real deal, I gots my goldsticker yo' cause I got on cam and seriously spend years seeking out some proper black cock cause me and my husband just can't be intimate like a normal couple with a powerful emotional bond that works their issues out, nor we do have any higher discerning requirements of a relationship than selfish lust (lust doesn't have to be selfish though I would say it shows up here in that form, and when you make lust the basis of your relationship then you are a dumbass truly,that outlook doesn't make any of your encounters the slightest bit meaningful, so all your efforts for sincerity make you sound like an emaciated addict preaching about good vs. bad cocaine.)

As for the uncle tom comment that's just baffling, I suppose any black dude with a brain who doesn't celebrate the 'niggahdom' eticate of being a walking dick is a bit offensive to someone who equates black identity as synonymous with slam dunking their rational faculties into the trash can.