Communication
Communication should start before a marriage. Ha, fat chance of that! Most men would prefer to keep secrets. If they find a woman that they fall in love with they most likely won't talk about their sexual fantasies. Like my wife, she asked me if I loved her for her beauty or if I loved her for who she is. Catch 22. Caught between a rock and a hard place. Communication should start early and being up front means less trouble down the road. Besides, being up front and getting your woman means more fun from the start.
I confronted my wife early in our marriage. Although, communication really did not start until I discovered that she was having an affair. I defined an affair and clearly told her that deceiving me was not what marriage was about. I also told her that she could have all the extra-marital sex she wanted as long as she was not deceiving me. So it all began. With her eyes wide shut and now wide open, her becoming a cunt continues. And I fully anticipate greater sexual experiences are yet to come her way.
From a naive Jesus Freak in the 70's to a woman that is almost there. I give it about one more year. After all, time is ticking. The wife, mature and still tight is ready for becoming the woman she was always meant to be.
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