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Originally Posted by NorthVegasBBC
We're really all on the same page (bulls and husbands). The thing is these single weirdos, or husbands that their wives arent down make up the vast majority of what black men in this lifestyle have to deal with. So sometimes when you get to a real couple, your patience may be a little low. And sometimes even when the wife IS cool with it, the husband is still a little too overzealous...but if there's some actual pussy to be had, I let it slide. I advise all black bulls to learn the dead giveaways of fakes and time wasters. Because it will never happen for them, they always talk a certain way, or ask a certain type of question. If I still can't tell, I tell them very politely that I want to talk to the female. We don't even have to have a conversation, only hear her voice for like five seconds. After that, me and the husband can talk about pretty much anything, as long as its in reason and we have a working meet date. It always kills me when couples/women say how time consuming it is finding bulls. Really? You have no idea what we go thru. Fake wives outnumber fake bulls like 10 to 1. So keep that in mind and cut the bull some slack, as long as he isn't being disrespectful.
The key bulls, is patience, and experience. I can spot a fake by their ad so I don't even get to the bullshit portion. Sometimes for a laugh I go in the women/couples seeking forum here and some of the posts are so obviously from a single guy, yet you can bet 3 or 4 guys will be in there volunteering. Some of the pics are polaroids on a desk, or the faces are clearly photoshopped. Some of this, you guys bring on yourselves.
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I have to agree, and I understand the "ways"; it was just a peeve at the parties that the companions (some of them anyway) would want to get everything out of you. Even back then I would say to myself…why you are asking all the questions when you're not the one doing the labor?
At one of the parties 3 couples got into a discussion about how do you choose; then one of the guys went into his process; I then asked when does the lover (what I called them then) get to enjoy himself? Without hesitation he says "it's not about his enjoyment, it's about what I want him to do for me".
And the other guy in the group nodded his head in agreement. It was like they wanted praise, or adoration, or respect for offering their wives out to have sex with other dudes, and women. I don't know how much [jmo] respect I can have for another man whose fanatasy, or fetish is to see his wife have sex with another man. It would be another thing if their women looked good, and had bodies, but that wasn't the case back then just like now. I mean, some of these women I wouldn't be able to look at and eat! You can't trade 16oz of copper for 16oz of platinum.
I've had sex with females without their husbands that are in that particular lifestyle; not a lot but it has happened. If the husband has to be in the room then I have to be paid for my performance. I don't need ANY kind of pussy that bad where I need exploit myself for another man's fetish.