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Originally Posted by Pistolero

Many of the women that are seeking "extracurricular" sexual activity are emotionally compromised. They want to be wanted and desired... in some cases, loved.

Most of what goes on in extramarital activity is because of sexual and mostly emotional compromise. I suppose that whether or not someone is being taken advantage of depends on two things: The intent of the person who is the taker... is he just looking to get laid? if so, and if he is straight up about it, no harm done. The other thing is how deep does the needy person plan to go ?

Example: I have been sleeping with a woman for about 5 years, who is emotionally and sexually needy. We get together every three or four months and spend a day... I fucked the bejeezus out of her a few times, she lays in my arms and talks about her unhappiness... I tell her what a great woman she is (and she really is), and send her home happy until we meet again.

Am I taking advantage? Sure, because that big titty white woman is a rocket in bed (at age 56), and fucking her is like the fourth of July.... I can make that woman cum and squirt in minutes and she just keeps repeating. She gets what she needs, and so do I.

Thank you for your comment and thank you for sharing your experience.

You have provided a good example of a certain type of emotionally neglected woman.

The experience you have in this case has a positive outcome (result) for both the neglected and the opportunist. It's a mutual attraction and need. Therefore "no harm" is done.

It's very courageous of you to share your experience.
Normally you can expect many negative comments regarding your story; as some Chatmembers at Forum Threads will try to degrade you and ridicule you.

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