I also understand you. I am in the same situation you are in. I have messed around with enough married, engaged, and women with boyfriends (I did not pursue them too) to have issues with marriage. I have learned that most women cheat because of neglect at home or lack of attention. Most women want to feel wanted and needed and have a man that supports them. That is how the women I have messed with became interested in me. I listened to them and allowed them to vent and I accepted them for who they are. I think men and women are really looking for someone who accepts them for who they are.
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