[Mustang Alley]

You can't believe everything you read on this site and not all (speaking for myself) treat blk men as a piece if meat. same as I don't want to be treated like a white whatever. Trust me when I say my heart is more in this than anything else. Well heart first Lol But that applies to many areas.

I've seen these type of threads get ugly back and forth between the guys and then sometimes they all together just ignore them. I just wanted you to know that not everyone is as you believe them to be here.

Originally Posted by City_godess

I heard of this site and others like this where brothers come here to get their sex on and after looking at it (in between shakes of my head), I gotta ask the brothers when did they start to aim so low?

I'm talking about allowing them to come here and use you as some sexual creature to get their freak on, whilst at the same time maintaining a respectable distance in real life.

I don't have anything against interracial in of itself. What baffles me is how in public these same people keep black people practically at arms length with. Sure they come here to run after BBC and all the accompanying grotesque crude racial stereotypes that come with it. However when it comes to things such as dating or marrying into their families, marrying or dating their sons or daughters or other family members, close acquaintances, friends lunch buddies, neighbours, or guests to country or private clubs etc, they have this very common but never spoken aloud "ABB" mentality, Anything But Black. Meaning, they seem much more at ease and welcoming of people of other races and nationalities, even people who are very foreign, with whom they have not much in common. These seem to them to be more acceptable options that they generally are able to accommodate in one some way or another. As far as black people are concerned, it is usually a policy of minimum social contact i.e., deal with them only when necessary and to the minimum extent possible. Unless of course they are popular entertainers or athletes who are keeping their college and pro teams at the top of the rankings, who are always considered to be different, and their race becomes irrelevant.

I get why white people come to this site. Obviously they come to have their cake and eat it too. Avail themselves of "BBC" and all the primitive and brutish sexual connotations that come with it, while at the same time, avoiding these same people in real life when it matters and maintaining one's respectability.

I just don't get why our men allow themselves to be used in such a cynical way. It's almost like using something when it's handy and then placing it under the kitchen sink when done to keep it out of the way and comfortably out of sight.