[dirtygirl]

ok im gonna get blasted.

If u r married and you dont have an open relationship then dont cheat.
Sorry but dont your vows mean anything to u.

Ok here i go on my high horse

All i know from experience is that any revelation of an affair is a devastating blow to any relationship and the ultimate betrayal. Im not sure ill ever trust again - always in back of my mind.

Yes we hear the excuses

Often the men say it's because their partner has lost interest in them, sexually.

Women most often blame a lack of emotional intimacy for why they suddenly became erotically entangled with another man.
"He understands me and listens to me in a way that my husband (or boyfriend) doesn't," is the common refrain.

Bull - go look at what your doing and think about the damage it will cause.

Dont cheat