It's Never OK to cheat.
Marriage is about a special relationship between two people (and if you have kids, for the love of god, don't screw that up) and cheating is always wrong. So you don't get to experience a sexual fantasy, most men and women never do. If you think a simple fantasy or sexual encounter is worth screwing that whole relationship up, then you have your priorities wrong and should not be married. And if your marriage is failing, then wait until you are legally separated
Of course my views may be shaped by the fact by scumbag ex cheated on me and I divorced his ass when I found out (we were swingers, but our deal was that both of us had to be there if any one of us was having sex with someone else and the other had to approve of the partner. But he betrayed me when he started having a sex buddy on the side without me being there, or my approval, for over a year before I found out. That was too much of a betrayal for me to handle). But I always believed that marriage was a journey a couple embarks one when their relationship reaches a certain special level. And you never screw that up for any reason that is not life-or-death. But that is one woman's opinion.
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