[jimbrowski]

Originally Posted by JandGinSD

I can say that some of us wives really prefer alone intimacy with our dates. A gawker is a distraction and that means less relaxation and fewer orgasms. There are times for exhibition, but as a regular part of play time, it doesn't work for all of us, probably very few of us. The men (lovers) also can feel uncomfortable with a woman's husband watching everything he is doing with her and somehow judging or evaluating the "performance".

If one wants to be a cuckold, one needs to accept that it is all about one's wife's pleasure and satisfaction. Any interaction should be supportive of that and very respectful of her intimacy. The fantasy wannabes who want a margin of control and feel it is about fulfilling their needs should just remain wannabes.

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