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Originally Posted by gatorrdw
1one300, my wife and I had a very "ordinary" life for over 35 years of living a "cuckold/shared wife " lifestyle. My wife and I were both professional people in very different fields, and we were able to keep our personal lives to ourselves. I'm an Alpha-type male myself and many of the men that were involved with my wife were alpha's. They quickly understood from my wife and I that we were just "sharing" her because we wanted to. If memory serves me correctly there was only 2 men that seemed to think that they were some sort of "God's Gift to a Woman" and they were promptly dropped by my wife and she made herself very clear that she no longer had any interest in them. So I am quite sure that you can enjoy this lifestyle and also have a very "ordinary" marriage and life if you and your GF/wife work at keeping the what you are doing from being anyone else's business. gatorrdw
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Thank you very much for your reply "gatorrdw"; you touch indirectly a point and I am aware of that; at the moment I only have my abstract phantasies and not a concrete relationship with a woman I love ... So my images are probably more than "two steps beyond" ... The point that maybe differs from your lived constellation, but thrills AND (understandably?) scares me, is, that I like the thought of being humiliated. Maybe it can be played as a game, but some part of me wants more than that ... I hope I can encounter my desires ... step by step.