Both myself and my partner talk about how it turns us both on
The key thing is to talk very openly . If one of you doesn't want to do something then quite simply don't do it . If you both do , and your are close and secure in our relationship , then do it . The other key point I believe is how the woman regards sex . Does she think more like a man and as an enjoyable experience with no emotion , no ties just lust. If she can't think that way don't do it . The last thing is to avoid a women doing it because she loves her partner and wants to please him but doesn't ' feel stirred to want to do so herself
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