Lots of different opinions in this thread. Sex and ones motivations may be different. For me, this is how it goes. My husband and I are swingers. We also have a D/s relationship where I am the sub. Usually we swing together, my husband participates, or knows and approves of whatever I'm up to. He is not a cuckold. I like fucking men period. Black, white, Latino, Asian, if a man is attractive to me both mentally and physically I'm available, providing my husband approves, I don't cheat on him. While the bulk of our activities are done together, we both do swing separately at times. So have I gone on dates alone with black men? Yes! There have been times when I've met men on my own and been very attracted to them and called my husband for permission to fuck them. He gives me the same courtesy. This has usually happened when I'm on business trips. At home there are 4 bbc we've known for several years and we've all become friends and they have permission to fuck me whether my husband is around or not, basically we've established a lot of trust with them. They are all men I can have a good time with in or out of bed. I generally find men myself I'm attracted to and if I decide I really want to fuck them, I usually refer them to talk to my husband. He then has conversations with them, and if he feels they seem to good men we both usually meet them for dinner or a drink and feel things out. You know within a couple minutes of meeting someone if there is real chemistry happening or not, it goes both ways. Personally I usually know within 5 minutes of meeting a man whether I'd fuck him or not. I like fucking black men because of the skin contrast and the little bit of the taboo about it. For the black men I've been with it seems to be the same, also with many I've met they like dominating a white woman with their cock, many want to hear me say I'm their whore and slut. I personally have no problem with that and actually enjoy it. I love variety and different aspects of eroticism, I'm sure that is true for a lot of people. For some hey may have a particular black or white fetish, to me it makes no difference. But I can categorically state in most cases, if I'm going to fuck someone, they need my husbands approval. No matter how nice the cock I'm not going to lose my husband over one. The fastest way for a man who's fucking me to get cut off, is to suggest I cheat on my husband.
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