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Originally Posted by Scarletandblack
The key thing is to talk very openly . If one of you doesn't want to do something then quite simply don't do it . If you both do , and your are close and secure in our relationship , then do it . The other key point I believe is how the woman regards sex . Does she think more like a man and as an enjoyable experience with no emotion , no ties just lust. If she can't think that way don't do it . The last thing is to avoid a women doing it because she loves her partner and wants to please him but doesn't ' feel stirred to want to do so herself
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Yes both have to be on the same page with this type of lifestyle. Even if one decides to take a break for awhile, it shouldn't become an issue as it is "Extra" to the marriage. Also most Bulls enjoy this lifestyle without the commitment to anything other than pleasure.
I have pushed the limits by suggesting going out in public and becoming friends outside of the bedroom, but things could get carried away in public and both of our careers are at stake so It's just a fantasy for now.