We have been in the BBC lifestyle about 18 mos. now
And we find that we are more successful out in the nightlife in the restaurants, bars and clubs. If there is a decent scattering of black men there, a white couple can be very successful in finding an amenable young man who would be interested in getting to know us better after I have sufficiently flirted with him and casually explained what is there for him to partake of if he so desires. We are rarely turned down and usually head out to our hotel room or sometimes our home if he seems like a future NSA Future FWBs. We have rarely done well in these sites foe meetups...too many no shows, but they are useful for getting the flames of desire burning and yearning for that special one or two BBCs that may be perfect for us.
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