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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley
A person has more than enough love to give and chooses to welcome others into their lives. For example the poly lifestyle. <3 There really is no cut and dry, razor sharp answer to your question. What works for some may not work for others and vice a versa. I love my husband to the moon and back and would do anything for him and to be perfectly honest, it would be a rare find to find anyone that pleases me sexually more than my husband because after 20 years he knows all the right places to touch, tickle and poke. Like the back of his hand! 
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Mustang you've actually touched on something that I found out marriage.
Since putting the post up I've asked 20+ women that have either complained about their husband in major or minor detail, including the married women that I have sex with; their issues were cheating; impregnating another woman; physical & emotional abuse; lackluster sex; controlling; incompatability and a lot of minor issues.
You stated that your husband knows you like the back of your hand; that means that he knows the positives and all the negatives about you.
When I asked the women why do they stay with someone who's doing the aforementioned they would say they didnt know then they would say "but I love him". Then they alluded to what you touched on and what I've believed for years; women like to play it safe and it's not to state that women don't leave their husbands because both genders leave, but when you've been in a relationship for any amount of years you know that person and vice versa; women lack adaptability and patience when it comes to the developmental stage of a relationship; they want everything done and over with already. So if an opportunity to get with a new man who may or may not be better than their current spouse they would rather stick with what they're used to rather than a potential to be; and lets be honest, a half ass dude, unless he's a pushover, would not put up with a womans negativities and baggage from prevoius relationships and women know that; so they say love but I think it has more to do with settling and laziness (not meaning to judge).
The next time you're around some women that are married ask them to describe a man that they think is attractive then look at their spouse and notice the difference between the two, lol. Eighty percent of the women I fuck around with are what I'm atracted to.
Most women dont marry the man that they're attracted to because those men will not marry them. BTW, it only takes me one night to get to know a womens body like the back of my hand because I actually respect the female anatomy and I take the time to explore their zones.