I've been in the lifestyle for over a decade and have been a Bull for over a dozen couples. There's a few things you should know:
1. Know your own limits. under no circumstances should you be willing to change them in the heat of the moment.
2. Always be in control of the scene. It's expected of you so don't forget this.
3. As someone already said, demand proof of authenticity. Video chat is ubiquitous these days so there's no excuse if someone won't agree to proving who they are.
4. Actual sites devoted to this lifestyle are getting to be useless, due to the type of perverts that are attracted to the fantasy. This one here has possibilities, but only if you know what you're doing. Patience is key if you really want a satisfying experience.
5. Be merciless with fakes and frauds and time-wasters.
Good luck. You should do very well in your area as there will be many couples that are on vacation and inclined to explore their fantasies in what amounts to paradise. Remember that you are a living embodiment of a fantasy and behave accordingly.
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