[blackduke]

This is actually a great topic. If the couple and I are really close I love sleeping over. If we don't know each other that well then I don't. That's if they agree of course. The sleepover thing varies from couple to couple and whatever their decisions, I usually accept it. I usually go to their place but on the rare occasions that they come to my apartment (maybe because of kids) and they want to sleepover I usually say yes as long as we are comfortable with each other, of course. I use to know a couple back when I was in the service who only allow me to sleep over when the husband was out of town on business because the wife hated to sleep alone and we were close friends so there was no problem there. My main point is that it all depends on the comfort level.