Alone at first
I prefer the first few meeting to be without cucky there. That way I can get to know my new man without the distraction of hubby looking and both of us having the feeling that we need to 'perform'.
After we are comfortable then hubby can watch. Because we have a family that isn't always possible anyway and I guess cucky only gets to see about a quarter of the time.
With the men I've been seeing for a long time, the dates are often without hubby and I do stay over night reasonably regularly which means that hubby has to be at home.
Always send texts and sometimes pics and on occasion I've phoned cucky while I've been with a lover.
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