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Originally Posted by nnnaughty40
Also visiting this site again for the first time in.....well, a very long time! I remember you and your comments / stories well, Helen. Good to see you're still around, still "active" and (presumably) still happy. I hope to hear that your marriage and family life are still strong, or if not, what went wrong? Do you still meet with any of the lovers you were seeing 5 years ago? Is cuckolding easier / more exciting with the benefit of your additional years and experience? And is there less guilt for a wife than there was back then? My sense is that there is far less of a taboo and more of a "mainstream" feel about it than there used to be. Basically, if a husband is aware and even complicit in his wife's extra-marital activities, then who the hell else's business is it? Or do you still have to be very discreet? Anyway, enough of the inquisition. Wishing you well - Have a great Christmas and New Year! 
Cheers
Naughty |
Hi Naughty
Really nice to hear from you again - it's great to know that some of us old guard are still around. To answer your questions - yes we are still active but over the years that has ebbed and flowed. There have been periods of inactivity as life has thrown up it's challenges with work and family. We have also had times when we've re evaluated our life style choices but thus far we have always drifted back to it.
I do still see one particular bull - J. He has been with us through the journey and his own life has taken a number of twists and turns.
I guess the 'excitement' also peaks and troughs. I think that over time we have grown to understand that this meets our needs for both cucky and I. So in that sense it has become more mundane, however we are still very discrete as our jobs wouldn't understand and nor would many of our friends or family. They do say that the cuckold lifestyle is becoming more common but I don't see any evidence that it is more accepted in main stream society.
I would say that I think I've become more confident in myself over the years - a combination of maturing, being comfortable of who I am, being in control and that I have the freedom to have lovers. Our dynamic has also changed. Cucky isn't as interested in having sex anymore, he seems to thrive more on my adventures and seems 'proud' that I am confident sexually.
He likes me to be in the driving seat and we have moved into him being locked in chastity a lot of the time now.
Anyway enough waffle - have great Christmas
xx Helen