I can't speak for everybody, but I think most couples may actually get closer by sharing this lifestyle. I know it takes alot of trust by my husband to know that I'll stay by him even though I get more satisfying sex with black guys. If that trust wasn't there in the first place maybe he wouldn't have coaxed me into the lifestyle.
Second, if sex is the only or the main thing holding the two of you together the relationship is not going to last very long, once again IMHO.
Third, for us, this lifestyle is a big sex game we both enjoy playing. Emphasis on BOTH. If we didn't both like playing it I probably wouldn't be here typing this.
Finally, having sex with a black guy may be fun, but being a married white wife that fucks black guys instead of her husband and having that husband eagerly clean out my pussy afterwards is much hotter for me, so I need him as much as he needs me for our game to be as intense as it is!
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