Not too soon
Based on my marriage I think waiting a while is best. I was a virgin of 20 when married to my great husband and we were sexually compatible. After about 4 years he told me his (black) boss whom I had met admired me. Then asked me to do him a favor that would help him in his job. It was of course to have sex with the boss. I was reluctant but did agree to date him a time or two to know him better. After a couple meetings in bars I found that I liked him. Also after almost 5 years of being married, the sex was getting boring. I was never unfaithful. But I found it easy and pleasant to agree to an arrangement. I was reawakened by his cock, even surprised by it. Husband got some benefits too. But he had to settle for BJs after that. It was all about 15 years ago and I have had black lovers (some friends of the boss) since then. And I don't think I would have been so transformed if I had not endured sex with a white man before.
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