It sounds as though your husband has been the one and only (maybe your first) sexual experience that you've had, judging from the many questions and options you have put forth. 1) If you don't know your husbands current state of mind regarding you having a BBC experience, then that is the "ground zero" body of work that first needs to be addressed and resolved. 2) From my experiences (photographer for a BBC/IRR website), EVERY woman that I've seen on the "scene" (pun intended) enjoy the experience TOTALLY! If they happen to be married, the husbands are very supportive and revel along with their wife, of course, they are both very much on the same page as to the BBC experience. Talking about things to the nth degree will not guarantee the results of your first BBC "date", but preparation, being selective and aware of the possibility of "worse case scenarios", should set the stage and all you and hubby have to do is "damn the torpedoes, full steam ahead!" Have fun...... we have..... mabuhay and good luck.
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