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Originally Posted by 25 White F NC
Anyone else feel like their hubby was full go and then it happened and it almost made things worse lol. long story short, I joined this site because me and him wanted to 'spice things up" and i found this site. Alot of talking and what not later I finally had my first black guy a few weeks ago. He was down for it eventho I knew he didnt like it, but its been weird since lol.
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Pretty common actually. A lot of people find the idea very sexy when worked up or in the bedroom but when it becomes more than a fantasy and there are actual events going on it can hit home. My recommendation always for people looking to consider this is to discuss it after sex when you're coming down from that lust and to start by considering a threesome. That way you can almost take baby steps with it.