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During the years of having a 2nd husband (twice) each lasting about 3 years. The individuals were introduced to neighbors, family, and friends as a renter of the downstairs apartment. We lived very close to 3 larger cities and if my wife and her 2nd husband that she was with at the time ran into people that knew her/us she always told them that I was late catching up with her. Her openness of nothing going on seemed to placate them because she didn't seem to be trying to hide anything. If they were out locally there wasn't any affection being shown, no kissing in public. On the other hand, when they went away for vacations and/or long weekends far from home, everyone assumed that they were a married couple because she never took her rings off. They would walk together holding hands, kiss sometimes.
Both men understood and respected what we/she wanted, and how she expected them to conduct themselves depending on where they were. Her black 2nd husband told her many times that it was very hard for him to keep his hands off of her when they were doing things like grocery shopping, or when they were setting in the stands watching me playing in a softball tournament. GTR
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