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Originally Posted by Phil_will1
This sort of ties in with a question I had intended to post, but had not gotten around to yet.
As a single black male who has been in several relationships with married white women, there is one aspect of the cuck scene that I just do not get. Some of the "bulls" on this forum have posted that they do not respect "cucks". I have heard some married white women say that they love their husbands even more for tolerating (and in some cases assisting) with their fulfillment, even in a way that the larger society would not approve of. So my question is how the addition of this new dynamic has affected the relationship (sexual and otherwise) between the husband and wife. I would also be interested in hearing if the third party relationship has turned into something that was unexpected in any way (positive or negative).
I have not ever been in a cuckold relationship, and I guess in the back of my head, I don't wish to contribute to the deterioration (or perhaps termination) of an otherwise happy marriage. I know some guys would say, "well, if it's already a happy marriage, they would not be interested in the cuckold scene". I'm not sure if that is always the case. For example, I could see some couples where the man has severe ED problems, but there is still a strong emotional bond, where this might be a way to save the marriage, perhaps moreso than if the wife had an affair. Another possible scenario might be where the wife had a much higher "libido" than the husband.
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I believe cucks enter a set of 3 stages
Stage 1: Pornographic propaganda-
Men who have insecurities + watch porn on a regular basis are more likely to seek a deeper meaning to it. What I mean by that is how they’ll compare an actress to their current lover and compare their size to the male actor in the scene. After the comparison a mindset of inferior is formed.
When comparing their lover to the actress in the scene it isn’t her looks, it’s the following reactions -
A). Her body movement (Obvious example as crawling to the actors cock or less obvious such as her legs shaking from an intense orgasm)
B). The way the actress acts toward the male actor, whether it be obvious as being swooned moment the scene starts or less obvious as to where the female actress submits after being intimidated, overpowered by the male actor.
C). The actress’s tone, which is typically words that strike a nerve with the cuck’s insecurity example being big or word combinations like “Don’t stop”.
During this stage, a man slowly starts to envy another man for not their cock size yet rather the dominant behavior that the cuck lacks.
Stage 2 - Curiosity
The cuck starts to wonder if swinging or an open relationship wouldn’t be all that bad (It always is, never a healthy alternative). So what does the cuck do? Fall for the trap that was set for them since the start.. googling it. Researching into the topic, and 99% of the search results is propaganda that slowly heightens their insecurities. The remaining 1% is attempts to justify the insecurities claiming it as “Not as bad as you’d think”. What really irritates me is how a large proportion of the results were created by females, I’m not trying to be sexist yet there are some topics females shouldn’t even try to tackle.
Mens insecurities are something only an insecure man or previous insecure man would understand.
Stage 3- Experimenting
This is where the man considers sacrificing his masculinity to watch or hear about his lover being pleasured by another. I said consider since it varies on how deep he’s entered into the inferior mindset.
The experiments can be executed in various of different ways yet the most common ways are -
1). Searching for a bull online
2). Your lover has gone through your search history and now she’s become interested in this fantasy of yours
3). You trick your lover into sleeping with another man without her consent.
4). Your lover ends up cheating on you.. yet instead of getting upset you encourage it.
5). Asking her generic questions while watching interracial porn such as “Do you want to fuck that big cock”
This logic has been reversed on females as well, since surprise.. surprise they got insecurities themselves and guess what it is? Bigger asses, bigger chests, being more of a slut in bed.
I’m 99% positive that if the cuck applied the same effect on his lover, she’d get pissed. You would think that since she cheats on him with his consent she wouldn’t care if he cheated on her right? Yeah well.. unfortunately the average cheater is a hypocrite meaning just flirting could strike a nerve with her.
Stage 3 - why,how, and when.
This stage is the moment of truth, you’ve either become a cuck or you’ve realized the error of your ways. Guess what you lost? Your lover.
Your lover no longer respects you, she has found you less attractive, and now views you as weak rather then strong. That doesn’t imply she will divorce or break up with you, since 99% of the bulls are disrespectful assholes that are used as the wifes boytoy.
The remaining 1% of bulls is more than a boytoy, it’s your lovers secondary boyfriend and potentially future husband if he’s only interested in her + if you piss her off enough. Yes that’s right.. she has fallen in love with two men, one she favors over the other.. him. A cuck has literally opened Pandora’s box and now he’s slowly yet unavoidably paying the price.