[dutchman]

Don't know how real she was, but I certainly enjoyed watching Yoga Hotwife (YH) in action. (I'm a sociologist, have published a deviance textbook, and also enjoy porn-- although at my age I sort of "curate" it, rather than watch it and masturbate.)

YH was a joy to watch because she seemed like a real person. According to the narrative she and her husband had planned this lifestyle from their first date. Her black partner seemed like a real stud-- and I've always like seeing big dicked guys in action. I liked Holmes and Ron Jeremy, but adding a black person seemed even more exotic and interesting. I like other exotica too. Like older woman - younger man.


But, according to Reddit, YH and her husband busted up, and she's with her black lover now. Hubby may live next door to help with the kids. These are Reddit rumors of course, so can't swear to any of it.


The last thing I'd personally do is let my current wife fuck anyone else, if I knew about it. Yes, I've cheated on her. Last time about four years ago (one off.) My advice is "don't ask, don't tell" is best if either of you do it. In my first marriage we were open for a number of years, but that tends to colonize the primary relationship with fascination for lovers etc. DADT makes you shut up about it at home.


Sex is very primordial. Even very reasonable people can get very swayed by it. The separation and maybe divorce of YH and her husband is not a surprise. We all tend to be attracted by things like youth, strength, feminity, virility, even dick size.

So I won't be taking those risks. Much too old to start over.