[thetaylorbear]

I can't speak for everyone but here is my own "Selfish" reasons for "Anal" & this only applies to ladies that I am dating or if they are married or in a relationship & stuff like that .
If it is sex on the fly like when you go on vacation or travelling for business and such,
then unless your in Europe many women don't care for anal sex & to say they don't care for it may be a bit "Too Strong" a reply ..so let's say it's not introduced into the sexual line up of sorts .

Now for my " Selfish" reasons (And they are only two (2) ) when it comes to someone I am dating ,or if they are married or in a relationship (And she still texts & calls to meet up )
then my selfish reasons are simple ..So here ya go !

#1 I wanna be the "First " guy in the ass !
And to quote a great line from the movie "Margin Call ":
" Remember there are only three (3) ways to make a living in this world and that is to be First , be Smarter or cheat" ..So I 'd rather "Be First !!! "

#2 I don't wanna be the guy who got left out
meaning : she says I did it once & it hurt or I used to do it all the time but I found Jesus ?!?
*That's about when the "Breakup" usually happens ♂♠