I am a black guy that I've been meeting with mostly white married couples and few latin married couples for 15 yrs. I am straight and never been attracted by a male, nor physically, sexually or emotionally. I love women in any way possible, sexually, physically and emotionally and I am in a long term relationship with a woman.
But while I've been meeting couples to play with the wives, I've been asked many times (especially the last 10 years) to let their straight husbands to serve as part of her dominance toward him or just because they where curious for him to serve another male (bi curious).
By my experience, it is true that more often than not white (in my case) straight males are aroused and even tempted by Bull's large penis (that's how they call in swingers' culture the well endowed man, especially black man, that has sex with the wife), even when they are straight.
I'm not sure why it is this way and what influenced it, maybe it is this culture in recent years spreaded by porn industry, maybe it is this new trend of lifestyle by suburbs' white middle-class, but it is true, that many straight males and especially their wives consider it not as a homosexual thing but as a new way extra-sexual, like it doesn't have to do with sex. Many of them were willing to do things they would never had done and which weren't so sexual.
I have talked with several of them, which some of them are my friends now, after we have finished and while drinking something they have told me that this is like the new taboo, like it was few decades ago swinging your wife or gang bang. Many of males I've been served by has told me they would never do this with just a normal male, not even with a normal endowed black.
What I've understood about this is more than a sexual thing, to these straight men is a psychologic thing. I'm not a professional and I don't want to take that role, but all I've seen in their eyes it was admiration and even doubts about the size of my penis. And not coincidentally many of them had below average size penis, only very few of them were average or well endowed as well. For many of them it was what they would have wanted to be equipped with.
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