Quite honestly I fail to see how you don’t fall in love!
Maybe I’m wrong or some people deny it, but when you get into a relationship regardless if you think it’s just sexual or an affair or cheating secretively. Clearly you get attached, your feeling for them grow and intensify and that all leads to love. Especially if your entering this relationship because your home life isn’t what it should be.
Personally I fell in love quick, with every aspect. I loved being complimented, being treated, spoiled, I was made to feel special something I wasn’t getting from my marriage and the more I compared my relationships. The easier it became to fall in love, to stop hiding my affair and let it be known I was in love & in a new relationship.
I know a few women similar scenarios to myself and the outcome is always the same. How can you force yourself to stop when everything feels so right? Feelings build and as they do I think your relationship or marriage deteriorates. In truth it doesn’t end well for the “white guy”.
Regarding the above post, it is more common and interracial relationships are more accepted tho still raise eyebrows. In the UK we don’t have Mandingo clubs, we have zebra lounges tho I’m guessing they’re the same. Mandingo isn’t a word really used here or “bull”, but clearly I know what you mean. And again there’s many clubs, pubs and bars that cater for interracial interests without promoting it on the door. Some zebra lounges do theme nights. Like school disco, 70’s club theme, leather & lace etc...... you get the idea? It’s just an excuse to dress slutty with a theme.
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