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Originally Posted by absanon
So how would you explain this to your family, friends etc? Or are you openly cuck to everyone?
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If she was to become pregnant as a result of her current affair, there really wouldn't be much to explain. Her affair is with her Boss/lover, he is white, and he and I are often mistaken for brothers even when his own brother is at whatever function I happen to be at also!! LOL Pisses off his real brother.
If the baby was obviously not mine due to the race of the father...…..we haven't really crossed that bridge completely. When she was BBC active, and taking chances, we started telling friends/family that we were trying to have a baby again (she has known problems getting pregnant) and considering using artificial insemination to see if we had better luck.....and then claim a mix-up or misunderstanding at the clinic and WHOOPS!!
Beyond that, only the truth would explain the situation.....maybe we would pretend we had a bad period in our marriage and it happened then during a short affair and we aren't going to punish the baby for our indiscretions, but we are more likely to lean towards the sperm bank error.
The only person who MIGHT suspect something differently is one of her sisters, and that's because her Sister also got involved with BBC for a short time after catching my wife in a restaurant with a Black Lover. Wife stammered out a "business dinner" story, but eventually owned up to the sister when she continued to push for details...….it was OBVIOUSLY not a business dinner situation. Wife was cozied up next to him very amorously, dressed in a SHORT miniskirt, nylons, CFM heels, and sheer top with a equally sheer bra under it and just a small cover-up to keep things legal......NOT her usual Corporate Exec business suit wardrobe for business dinners!! LOL Sister was curious, and they ended up sharing him for 6 months until her Sister accepted she REALLY enjoyed it but her husband would NEVER agree to the lifestyle and quit.
CW