Not such a straight forward answer here! I guess we can only dress as sexy as we are confident and to what our tastes deem sexy! Right?
Personally since meeting my boyfriend 8 years ago my dress sense has changed drastically with my boyfriends encouragement and my climbing confidence. Confidence is the biggest factor for how anyone dresses, how we look, feel, the reactions, the trends, comments and looks we attract!
My point being it’s pointless wearing a mini-dress if your paranoid about looks and who might see you. Wearing something to sexy doesn’t make you sexy, if you don’t own it! I’m very petite and athletic build so can wear and love to wear skin tight clothing, the same doesn’t work for bigger ladies. Same too for heels, I’m 5,2” and love, love, LOVE platforms. Anything up to an 8” heel! But as much as us ladies love our heels, if your very tall or are a larger girl heels are your worst nightmare.
Personally tho I love my image, my style and I’m surrounded with like minded women, my girlfriends are very similar we’re all mid 40’s divorces with younger boyfriends wearing heels too high and skirts too short! But I wouldn’t change it for the world. Do I think this is how all us white women should dress for blacks guys?.......... Nope! But I think it’s fare to say only women that dress like me are clearly Black Men’s Trophy’s! X
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