For me as a man it's just a huge turnoff. None of my friends and family use it. I'm always attracted to white women who are cognizant and deeply conscious of the struggle for open interracial relationships over the centuries. We're blessed beyond words to be living during a time when Black Men and White Women can be intimate with each other legally, freely and honestly without being killed in the "N" word's name [in most places]. Again, that's my perspective.
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