I can say from our expierence we dabbled online with some swinger sites, chatted with some different folks and read stories about couples and thier expierences. My hubby introduced it to me and I wouldn't have thought about it till he found a couple stories that sounded hot and sexy. They involved IR swinging. Then while I was out one day, he got online, became friends with a couple black guys and gave them my IM. When I got home that evening, he left a "Folder" on the computer labeled Men. In the folder was numerous pictures of IR couples and really nice black cocks. It really turned me on and I caught the hint with that. Then when I got online to chat with my girl friends on IM I had a couple messages from guys that hubby showed my picture too and offered up the conversation. Once I was online he pulled out his laptop, got on his IM, and opened a chat room, invited Derrick my first, and really opened the door with som enaughty conversation.... Needless to say we discussed it, and it took a couple months but I really wanted to go through with it sooner than hubby knew. Hope this helps with some ideas.
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