Most people are turned on by a taboo, it’s usually an attraction to something they will never have! That’s what makes it the fantasy!
I wasn’t truly attracted to my wife for the last couple of years of our marriage, not that she wasn’t attractive I just think it’d gone stale as a relationship. My wife left me a while ago and seeing the changes in her appearance, confidence, how she dresses and attitude since living with her black boyfriend I’m constantly turned on by her! And a lot of that is purely because I know I’ll never have her again.
That said I’ve never fantasied about my daughters. My girls were very young when they moved with there mother to live with her new man and I knew it was inevitable they would grow up into that lifestyle too. Seeing there mommy as role model, wanting her lifestyle and image. I wasn’t wrong they’re both mid late teens now dating black men, it was always going to happen! My daughters dress for attention they’re both very girly & petite like there mother so everything looks good on them they just always choose to dress slutty! I’m not angry or turned on, I’ll be honest they’re gorgeous and they know it and it’s a hot image seeing them with there boyfriends people knowing that there all black men’s arm candy!
I’ve learnt not to fight it! I accept it, it’s still taboo, it’s not racist to be concerned or question things. The fact is it’s happening more often than not white women are moving into this lifestyle and taboo is a big part. It doesn’t make you a bad dad try understanding. But be careful about making your girl a fantasy!
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