So I personally have gotten attached and maybe a little confused from certain lovers. I've had some become attached to me. Where I made my mistake was continuing to be with them and not draw a strict line. It never turned into anything as the situations forced a change. I loved my bfs then and love my fiancee now. I set my mind to it's just sex and I don't want to jeopardize what I have for a guy that clearly just wants me for what he's seeing and wanting. Have some been amazing lovers n genuine gentlemen? Absolutely but the hard conversations have to be put right out there. I explain I can't let this interfere with my relationship in any way. This has to remain as it is or we need to stop. It was most difficult for me to be this strong in the past because of my insecurities. In me and in my relationship. Show her u love her and say it!!! Nothing beats those two things. Not even great sex. Well... Maybe great sex is close but knowing you're loved is the best feeling in the world. Having both is having the cake n eating it too. Be cautious n find others that genuinely respect your relationship. It's OK to just want sex.
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