Difference
We look at things a couple of ways. There’s domination and then their superiority. Two totally different things but at the same time strangely similar.
We’ve never been with what either of us would truly consider a dominant black man, but our idea of dominance may be perceived as more forceful and controlling than a lot of people would think.
Now superiority is a different thing. Outside of the bedroom we‘ve had some very good friendships but when we are in the bedroom the black man is ALWAYS in charge, the wife is second, and I am at the bottom because I’m a white pussy boi
He takes what he wants when he wants it and how he wants it. He calls the shots and we obey his orders but that’s not because of domination, it’s because we believe him to be vastly superior to both of us and every black man we have been with has believed the same thing.
Verbal humiliation of me is the norm. At first my wife’s black lover would have to force her to verbally humiliate me, but In the later years she did it on her own without coaxing and usually started verbally humiliating me before he did.
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