I'm no expert, but here it goes. Be careful what you wish for, you may just get it. That said. You are going to have to discuss this with your wife when you are both sober. You need to discuss what you want out of this situation and what/if she thinks this is something she really wants. Not all couples can handle the shared wife lifestyle and it shouldn't be rushed into. As far as weakness, explain to her that you are not looking to be humiliated, but want her to live her fantasy and for her to achieve more pleasure. You should probably take your time in finding a third. Someone who you both respect and will respect both of you. Don't rush into things until everything is thoroughly discussed. Listen to her and make sure there are no doubts as you don't want to ruin your marriage. Whatever you decide, Good Luck
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