[emmainla]

My advice for newcomers is to take it slow. What's the rush? Why all the anxiety? Just have fun. ! Take it slow, talk to her a lot.

Just agree to have her dress sexy and give the guy a massage and hand job while you watch quietly from the corner. Turn the lights down low, put on some sexy slow jazz, bring them drinks, talk for a while, then have her give him a good hand job until he cums. See how you both feel about it. See if it turns you on or makes you jealous. If it doesn't go well, it won't break up your marriage, it was just a hand job.

But if it goes well, have them kiss the next time. Have him kiss her bare breasts. Have her kiss and lick his cock as she gives him the hand job. Maybe suck it up and down a few times.

If that goes well, meet him again and agree that they'll both be naked and kiss. And she gives him a bull blowjob to completion.

If that goes well.....then have them have full sex to completion. Congratulations. You did it right and now you're having fun.

Why do people rush? My wife and I took our time. Took us six months to work our way all the way to full on sex. That was years ago and she's been fucking black men while I watch ever since. We both love it.

Don't ever meet at their place, either do a hotel or your own place. Don't have them meet alone. You be there and stay out of the way. After they fuck and cum, I usually retreat back to the hallway just outside of the bedroom so they have time to unwind and do some pillow talk together. Usually they leave after they cum but some that she likes will stay and I bring them drinks, they snuggle for a while, and then start round two. It's up to them.

Have fun, my friend. There are no rules. Take things slow. This is supposed to be enjoyable, not stressful.

By the way, have him either show an STD free card or you can buy at home AIDS tests online and give him a test before sex. it's just a swab of his saliva and 20 minute wait. No one ever talks about this on sites like this but STDs are out there.