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Originally Posted by Brcr1234
I feel like I struggle with the same problem as her. It's all fun in fantasy and to talk about but the fear of damaging our relationship is what slows me down. It's a big step to trust that your partner won't hold it against you down the road, or worse yet decided it's ok for them to start being sexual behind your back as a form of payback. The old "well I let you have sex with a man outside our relationship so now it's ok for me to hook up with females".
You need to show her that she can trust you to not be worried that she will hurt you being sexual with another man. And maybe make it clear this is something you are doing together, and just because she's doing this doesn't mean you have a hall pass to be unfaithful.
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Think it is the same with my wife. I have tried to convince her I have no desire at all for another woman and it would make our relationship even stronger for me to see or at least know she is getting what she needs.
Probably the same with your husband.