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First time I’ve seen this thread, it’s been an eye opening experience reading how many of the black men feel about this. First allow me to give another husbands thoughts on the “why?!”
On August 14, we’ll be married 34 years and our marriage has never been stronger, we both are enjoying time together and have experiences that were amazing as I’ve shared some of them here in our pics. Sadly when we were first married I was not as secure with her and worried that she’d leave me for someone else. She was a sexual diva in her youth and she had the body that dripped and oozed sex, she wore the sexiest outfits and was very confident, she’d experienced other guys behind my back and a few with my permission. We took part in a threesome with a coworker of mine and soon after that I watched her do a DP with two of my friends, but never with a black guy, the reason was her upbringing, she was raised to think it was wrong. The entire taboo factor is what inspired me to talk her into it as she worked in Baltimore and was constantly getting hit up on by black men. Finally as we were nearing our 40’s she’d finally given in to try it. She actually arranged it and n her own with a guy she met on a business trip in Houston. The next day she called me to say she’d done it and it was really good for her and she’d be willing to experience it again back in Baltimore. That’s when I joined and actually met a friend on this site. We met and they started hanging out on their own or with me at clubs. He didn’t like to be watched and I respected that. We met some other guys who were cool with me watching her, and let me explain, seeing my wife with someone else is a real rush as she becomes someone different, her inhibitions fall away and she lets loose, as she’s gotten older, I like how she sort of transforms back to her youthful sexual diva days, it’s actually good for her and I like what these guys make her feel better about herself.
I’ve never tried to participate or give orders on what they should do, I just watch and if I can, take pics so I can appreciate the moment later. I posted pics not to brag but to show encouragement to any couple who may be in the same situation, that’s why I comment a lot and share some lengthy stories, not to brag or talk a bunch of crap, but to encourage others who would like to experience this but don’t know how.
It’s a mutual respect amongst all three involved. I’ve never used the “security” excuse nor forced myself in the room, my wife’s been on her own with her friends and the trust is there that she is safe with them. Our regret in all of this is that we waited so late to experience this lifestyle, my wife often says, “I wish we were doing this when I was in my 20’s!”
I’d vote for hubby watching but the votes been closed for quite some time!