Lol well ours are super tame compared to what everyone else has but for us it the "taboo-ness" of it. We like that it's not something that your supposed to do when you in a committed relationship. It's the thought of getting caught out in public, dressed inappropriately with a man that's not my partner. Getting seen out at a bar with other men, or maybe someone seeing my car outside a motel. It's the picking up the kiddo from school, knowing I have sexy lingerie on under my mom clothes and that I just spent the last couple hours in a nasty motel with strange men that were packing serious D. As a female society tells us that we aren't supposed to like or want those things. Your a slut if you care about penis size. Your a whore if you like something bigger then average. Only ho's wear that type of lingerie, or dress like that not moms in committed relationship. And for my partner he likes knowing that I enjoy doing it, he likes that I'm sexual enough to try these things, he likes coming home and feeling that I might not be as "tight" as I was yesterday, or reading convos Ive had with other men before and after we meet up, me playing the part of a "cheating" spouse. hearing all the nasty stuff I did with a stranger. And I love that he likes it, almost more then the act of doing those things. But that's just us.
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