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Originally Posted by Brcr1234
I'm sorry to hear this, that must be hard for you. In a way it's a very dangerous lifestyle. Your trust in each other has to be 100% you can't have any questions. And if you do start feeling differently about it you have to be able to speak up and tell your partner and TRUST that they will listen to your concerns in a loving and non judgemental manner. If she was feeling differently about your arrangement or had an issue with catching feelings she should have said something to you. One of the hardest parts for me to accept about this lifestyle is that just because my partner wants to share me does not mean he cares less about me. Some view it as if your will to let another man sleep with me, you must not care about me or our relationship. It can be a hard feeling to get over and it took alot of talking with my partner to get me to the point of not feeling that way. Once again I'm very sorry this happened to you. This isn't for everyone and especially if you are hardcore into the lifestyle. Even only having a toe in it like us can be super hard on a relationship.
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I appreciate your thoughtful words, really I do !