The answer depends on you. What do you want? Do you want a girlfriend/wife who has sex with black guys while you watch? Does that turn you on or not? If so, then the two of you need to sit down and have a serious talk about fantasies and sex games before you start arguing and break up.
She's obviously into black guys and laying down hints. Now, it's up to you to either tell her no and break up with her or tell her that you're willing to try it with her.
My advice is to do something small at first to see if you both like it. Have a black guy over and have her give him a hand job and massage. Have her put on something sexy, have a few drinks with him and then have her give him a massage and hand job until he cums while you watch. That way, if you don't like it, it was only a hand job and you're not too traumatized. But if you do like it, you can do more the next time such as allow her to give him a blowjob. Slowly work your way up to watching her have full on sex with black guys. Take small steps to reach that point, even if it takes you a year to build up to that point.
That's how my wife and I did it. We did small things at first to test the waters. We didn't know if it was just a fantasy or something we would enjoy in real life. So we had a guy come over and she gave hiim a massage while I watched. We both liked it and were very turned on. Over time, she now has sex with black guys and I enjoy watching. We have a great sex life.
If you find that you don't like watching, you should break up with her and keep it on a friendly basis. It's just not a match. She wants someone she can swing with and if that's not something you want, go find someone else.
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