[QUOTE=generic3;96959]That was our expectation. I am not sure why he brought other guys with him. in the future, what happens if we are in a room with one man and someone knocked and all of a sudden we have two or more people show up. I never thought of that but i now, i do.[/QUOTE
Good question. Once you set ground rules and he agrees prior to meeting, then it's a chance you will have to take. Also, some websites are better then others for that sort of thing. Ashley Madison worked well for me.
Do either of you have black friends or co workers who might be willing to help? Or do you prefer someone you don;t know for this?
You said you weren't comfortable with any of this but going along for her. How do you think you'll feel after it happens? How will it affect your relationship moving forward? What if she wants a weekly meet with a black guy? A long term lover or different guys? If she wants a 3some? How much of a part are you going to play?
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