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Originally Posted by TG18
If you are regretting the decisions of the past, if it hurts, then you have to decide if you want to try and get her back, or just let her go. Would you fight for her, to get her back? Do you really want her back? If not find another place to shop and write her off, move on. Don't wallow in pain when you don't have to.
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Yeah it does hurt to see that she's moved on . During the 20 years that we were married we got along better than most couples. We hardly fought and we had a good life together. Above all we trusted each other or at least I trusted her. Even after we got into the whole cuckold sex thing, she always told me who she was thinking of partying with. I know I share some blame in not saying anything to her when she started getting emotionally involved with men. But, at the time, her sexual escapades with her bulls excited the hell out of me and I honestly thought she was keeping it all in perspective. I'm a fool for not realizing that women are far more complex than men and it bit me in the ass.
I would take her back in a heartbeat and fight to get her back. But I think that ship has sailed. She's not the same person anymore. From what I've seen and heard, she's seems to be completely devoted to the older black man she's living with.
Honestly, I guess it's time to move on.