I don't know if it helps your situation at all, but I will tell you that I didn't give BBC a thought until after my divorce, so I'm a late-to-the-game enthusiast myself. I got involved in online chatting - in my case on Paltalk - and chatting with random men included some black men. Some of those black men invited me to the interracial chat rooms on Paltalk, which then led to more direct contact with mostly black men and also unavoidable exposure to interracial porn vids. I still have yet to take the plunge into the real world of BBC, but I will and that's how I got myself into it. What to do in your situation? I don't know the exact answer.
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