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[doug11]

I can't believe i'm posting this, after years of fantasies, sharing with my wife how hot it would be to see her go black, watching steamy amateur vids together of wives getting blacked, we are ready to make it a reality. She is ready for her first black cock. Just thinking of her going black instantly makes me hard and and her very wet!

We placed an add for "her first black man" , received lots of responses, and met with the guy she chose. We all got along and agreed (especially my wife) that this was a surprisingly comfortable opportunity.

Now even our schedule has opened up and there is nothing to stop us. We are ready, sharing her with her first black man is a reality.

Question is: SHould we follow through? We both really want to but... should we? - what will it be like for her, for us, for our relationship? Will this make us closer or drive us apart? Should we enjoy the fantasy or make it real!

If you have experience here with any of this - please help us out.

D and M

[dbarnes65]

It all depends on you both. There will be a lot of emotions on both sides. This is your wife and she may be making noises that you have never heard her making. You could become sick to your stomach, you will have butterflies. Fantasy and reality are two different things. For me the first time we tried, it was all messed up, the guy was muscular but when he took his clothes off, was only about 5-6" was uncircumsized, and then had erection issues, he couldnt get it up, said he was nervous because I was in the room, she ended up blowing him twice, he came each time with a limp dick. He at her pussy and fingered her and left, we fucked like rabbits and its been on ever since. Everyone knows just because the guy is black doesnt mean he will be hung. We now do a little more talking with the guys, more pictures, with details to ensure we dont get anymore pinkies. Once things start you cant tell the guy you changed your mind, because once in the room somebody is getting fucked. Make sure your marriage is strong. There is no such thing as we will do this once, because someone may enjoy it more than the other and then will be sneaking around to get it.

[doug11]

Thanks dbarnes65, You feedback is really helpfull and you bring up good points. We want the "First experience" to go smothly and to be a good experience.

D and M

[xfun4me2]

db's words seem very wise.

you have time on yr side. whatever you decide, I'd recommend not rushing.

pretty tough when the blood is flowing I know.

your goal is to balance security and excitement. on a different plane you'll want to balance the relationship stuff you mentioned.

welcome to being a cpl ha ha

good luck. you got me curious know. pls let me know over time. I'll be around with this profile.

[wonderingforher]

Originally Posted by doug11

I can't believe i'm posting this, after years of fantasies, sharing with my wife how hot it would be to see her go black, watching steamy amateur vids together of wives getting blacked, we are ready to make it a reality. She is ready for her first black cock. Just thinking of her going black instantly makes me hard and and her very wet!

We placed an add for "her first black man" , received lots of responses, and met with the guy she chose. We all got along and agreed (especially my wife) that this was a surprisingly comfortable opportunity.

Now even our schedule has opened up and there is nothing to stop us. We are ready, sharing her with her first black man is a reality.

Question is: SHould we follow through? We both really want to but... should we? - what will it be like for her, for us, for our relationship? Will this make us closer or drive us apart? Should we enjoy the fantasy or make it real!

If you have experience here with any of this - please help us out.

D and M

Be careful!! This may be a marriage ender. Marriage is too important to throw away by allowing the little head to do the thinking for the big head (on top ur shoulders). This will certainly be a game changer for the rest of your marriage- however long or short it may be afterwards. I've read/talked to folks who got divorced by doing this. And then there are the others who love it.

Don't wait until u are hard or thinking about sex to think about the possible consequences- do it now. Can u handle her wanting another man inside her instead/in place of u? How often is enuff/too much for u to deal with? These questions and others that need answers before ur aroused.

Just saying....

[kimjo]

I guess you will have already made your decision but it ended my marriage. Having said that I have no regrets - but I think he has.

[Newcpl2]

Are you the jealous type, can you cope with the visual of your wife underneath another man, can you cope with the sight and sounds of her cumming on his cock, can you cope with him (perhaps) being bigger or better than you, can you cope with the fact that he may leave a load of cum inside her which will be there for a while and cannot be removed?

...and can you do all that without becoming an asshole or thinking any less of her?

If the answer to those questions is "yes" then you're ready, if you cannot answer with absolute conviction then your answer is "no".

My experience was I loved her MORE and wanted her MORE as a result... that's pretty common.

The point of my questions is... this is about sex... ONLY sex... enjoying her body and your sexual relationship. She NEEDS to know you will still love her afterwards and so do you. Assuming you own her heart... enjoy her sexuality to the full; safe in that knowledge. You're a long time dead...

[Chilz069]

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