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Dakid230 06-24-2013 09:16 PM

Nobody likes younger men??
 
Nobody wants a young bbc huh??

susu56 06-24-2013 11:37 PM

Wish you weren't so far away
 
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Originally Posted by Dakid230 (Post 54405)
Nobody wants a young bbc huh??

Would luv to take that whenever you could give it to me. I love younger black men!!

irfantasy 06-25-2013 02:03 AM

Lots of mature white ladies go crazy for young black guys. The issue is that it can be difficult for a young man to connect with an older woman. Even for casual sex, most women expect to form a connection with a man. Doesn't mean they have to love each other. But they need to feel a connection. Once you hit your mid-20s and especially 30s, your luck with older women will improve. The two 41 year olds I've attracted recently told me that 24/25 is their lower limit and I'm a couple years above that limit so they gave me the green light. They feel like it's having sex with their son if they go lower than mid-20s. I've also been turned down by a number of older women who are looking for a man who is at least 30 or even 35. One of them was in her early 40s. A few in their late 40s.

Women are not all the same. But they tend to be not as wham, bam, thank you ma'am as men. Women need to be seduced. Especially older women. It's not enough to be all like "yeah I'm a hot young black guy with a BBC." Remember that there are plenty of boytoys willing to fuck older women. You need to seduce her with your mind. Unless she really needs to get laid and she figures that you will do.

While lots of mature white women love young black guys, I noticed that lots of young white girls love older black gentleman. It must be a daddy thing (not knocking it. lol).

Mustang Alley 06-25-2013 02:37 AM

Shitttttttttttt, what you talking about?
 
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Originally Posted by Dakid230 (Post 54405)
Nobody wants a young bbc huh??






Love my little cubs. 💋 especially my 🐢 turtle daddy *wink*


Mustang Alley 06-25-2013 02:40 AM

Nice post.
 
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Originally Posted by irfantasy (Post 54413)
Lots of mature white ladies go crazy for young black guys. The issue is that it can be difficult for a young man to connect with an older woman. Even for casual sex, most women expect to form a connection with a man. Doesn't mean they have to love each other. But they need to feel a connection. Once you hit your mid-20s and especially 30s, your luck with older women will improve. The two 41 year olds I've attracted recently told me that 24/25 is their lower limit and I'm a couple years above that limit so they gave me the green light. They feel like it's having sex with their son if they go lower than mid-20s. I've also been turned down by a number of older women who are looking for a man who is at least 30 or even 35. One of them was in her early 40s. A few in their late 40s.

Women are not all the same. But they tend to be not as wham, bam, thank you ma'am as men. Women need to be seduced. Especially older women. It's not enough to be all like "yeah I'm a hot young black guy with a BBC." Remember that there are plenty of boytoys willing to fuck older women. You need to seduce her with your mind. Unless she really needs to get laid and she figures that you will do.

While lots of mature white women love young black guys, I noticed that lots of young white girls love older black gentleman. It must be a daddy thing (not knocking it. lol).





A lot of valid points there.


wiseguy13 06-25-2013 04:11 AM

I watched my gf (29) suck off an 18 year old with an extremely large dick--very hot. He came but never went soft.

turtles 06-25-2013 04:24 AM

turtle cub

Mustang Alley 06-26-2013 02:20 AM

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Originally Posted by turtles (Post 54419)
turtle cub





💋 That's right baby.



spnflip 07-13-2013 09:30 PM

I do the younger big black dicks.

Mustang Alley 07-13-2013 11:18 PM

Again?
 
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Originally Posted by obx! (Post 55135)
U 2 need to get a room :mad:






Geesh. Airfare and rooms are killing us but it's sooooo worth it. :D






EdieG01 07-23-2013 01:39 AM

young and old
 
Being 50 something 99% of my BBC lovers are younger. But I can say one of my lovers brought his son into our bed. I found out later that I was his first-ever real woman. Between both of them there was not much rest that night. Something to be said avout that old saying about being young and dumb but full of cum.....OMG

mmillicent 07-23-2013 02:46 AM

yes
 
i do very much

Mariposa Blanca 07-23-2013 12:15 PM

My first local guy was 29. I'm 46. We started off meeting for coffee, got along great and took the next step. He wound up using 3 condoms that night, so I thought he'd enjoyed. He talked about getting together again. Then, he told me that he wanted to find a woman that he could get in to a real relationship with. I understood and wished him well. Then, 3 months later, he posts that he's looking for a casual playmate for the summer. I sent him a message wishing him good luck and remarking that he seemed to have gotten over his aversion to casual. His reply was that situations change, and that he was looking for less of an age discrepancy this time around.

To be honest, that made me feel like I'm ready to go into "the home". I'm not sure that I'll ever be able to fully believe a younger guy when he says he wants to be with me, based on that experience. I had my doubts before, but this guy convinced me that age wasn't an issue. Now, I'm feeling that my original thoughts were valid all along.

wmlioegfbbc 07-23-2013 02:01 PM

it's actually their preference
 
ex wife is now with younger black guy but purely for his big black dick. I am happy for her knowing she's getting stretched the way she needs to. bittersweet I guess lol and from time to time I get a picture here in there which is so hot!

happy hunting young lad

newblkman22 07-23-2013 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Mariposa Blanca (Post 55463)
My first local guy was 29. I'm 46. We started off meeting for coffee, got along great and took the next step. He wound up using 3 condoms that night, so I thought he'd enjoyed. He talked about getting together again. Then, he told me that he wanted to find a woman that he could get in to a real relationship with. I understood and wished him well. Then, 3 months later, he posts that he's looking for a casual playmate for the summer. I sent him a message wishing him good luck and remarking that he seemed to have gotten over his aversion to casual. His reply was that situations change, and that he was looking for less of an age discrepancy this time around.

To be honest, that made me feel like I'm ready to go into "the home". I'm not sure that I'll ever be able to fully believe a younger guy when he says he wants to be with me, based on that experience. I had my doubts before, but this guy convinced me that age wasn't an issue. Now, I'm feeling that my original thoughts were valid all along.

Please don't let one bad experience ruin it for you, there are lots of guys in our 20s who seek out and want a long-term relationship with a mature woman. I do like women my age but I like and prefer a more mature woman cause I want something serious and long-term.

Mariposa Blanca 07-23-2013 07:09 PM

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Originally Posted by newblkman22 (Post 55474)
Please don't let one bad experience ruin it for you, there are lots of guys in our 20s who seek out and want a long-term relationship with a mature woman. I do like women my age but I like and prefer a more mature woman cause I want something serious and long-term.

Thanks for your reply. I won't say never, but I will be more cautious in determining the connection nd the sincerity of the guy. So, unfortunately, future lovers will have that extra hurdle.

Mustang Alley 07-24-2013 01:15 AM

That really bites.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mariposa Blanca (Post 55463)
My first local guy was 29. I'm 46. We started off meeting for coffee, got along great and took the next step. He wound up using 3 condoms that night, so I thought he'd enjoyed. He talked about getting together again. Then, he told me that he wanted to find a woman that he could get in to a real relationship with. I understood and wished him well. Then, 3 months later, he posts that he's looking for a casual playmate for the summer. I sent him a message wishing him good luck and remarking that he seemed to have gotten over his aversion to casual. His reply was that situations change, and that he was looking for less of an age discrepancy this time around.

To be honest, that made me feel like I'm ready to go into "the home". I'm not sure that I'll ever be able to fully believe a younger guy when he says he wants to be with me, based on that experience. I had my doubts before, but this guy convinced me that age wasn't an issue. Now, I'm feeling that my original thoughts were valid all along.






Maybe he thought that's what he was looking for. Either way he should have been honest. Honesty is so rare these days. Well that doesn't include NewBLK. He's as honest as the day is long. 😊


Mariposa Blanca 07-24-2013 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 55495)




Maybe he thought that's what he was looking for. Either way he should have been honest. Honesty is so rare these days. Well that doesn't include NewBLK. He's as honest as the day is long. 😊


Thanks. I totally agree that honesty is rare, but oh so important. I'm trying to keep an open mind, while still being cautious.

turtles 07-24-2013 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Mariposa Blanca (Post 55463)
My first local guy was 29. I'm 46. We started off meeting for coffee, got along great and took the next step. He wound up using 3 condoms that night, so I thought he'd enjoyed. He talked about getting together again. Then, he told me that he wanted to find a woman that he could get in to a real relationship with. I understood and wished him well. Then, 3 months later, he posts that he's looking for a casual playmate for the summer. I sent him a message wishing him good luck and remarking that he seemed to have gotten over his aversion to casual. His reply was that situations change, and that he was looking for less of an age discrepancy this time around.

To be honest, that made me feel like I'm ready to go into "the home". I'm not sure that I'll ever be able to fully believe a younger guy when he says he wants to be with me, based on that experience. I had my doubts before, but this guy convinced me that age wasn't an issue. Now, I'm feeling that my original thoughts were valid all along.


why not save condoms and reuse the first one , hell i use a sock

Mustang Alley 07-24-2013 01:50 PM

A
 
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Originally Posted by turtles (Post 55534)
why not save condoms and reuse the first one , hell i use a sock





Tube sock??? 💋


turtles 07-24-2013 01:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 55535)




Tube sock??? 💋


what are those i think a normal sock will be more flexible lol

Mustang Alley 07-24-2013 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by turtles (Post 55536)
what are those i think a normal sock will be more flexible lol






Lol. My turtle cub is so young. Lol. 💜 Ya!!!



turtles 07-24-2013 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 55537)




Lol. My turtle cub is so young. Lol. 💜 Ya!!!




young enough for google lol, a tube sock sounds perfect, tho i might stretch it out a bit =D

bigstickdavid951 07-24-2013 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Dakid230 (Post 54405)
Nobody wants a young bbc huh??

Ya i feel you on that . I have been honest and open to meeting a mature woman or cuckold couple. I am still looking sadly. I thought i could find one but most say im too young or they are into older men. But doesnt stop a squirrel from finding a nut right . And hell winter isnt for a while so i am good lol. Also many say cali is good for that but seems like cali is the hardest place lol.

Mustang Alley 07-24-2013 08:09 PM

Getting verified Is half the battle.
 
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Originally Posted by bigstickdavid951 (Post 55540)
Ya i feel you on that . I have been honest and open to meeting a mature woman or cuckold couple. I am still looking sadly. I thought i could find one but most say im too young or they are into older men. But doesnt stop a squirrel from finding a nut right . And hell winter isnt for a while so i am good lol. Also many say cali is good for that but seems like cali is the hardest place lol.





I recall a night in chat where others were asking you to turn your cam on. So that you could prove that you were indeed who you claim to be. All the request went ignored, then you left chat after another 10 (or so) minutes.





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But doesnt stop a squirrel from finding a nut right . And hell winter isnt for a while so i am good lol. .






LMAO~ I've been around many young cubs, NEVER heard one speak like that before. That's old man talk right there. Just saying.

Like I said, verification is half the battle!!!




JandGinSD 07-24-2013 08:47 PM

It's Complicated
 
The point of very young being the age of some of our kids is a psychological barrier that has to be understood and respected. There are just plain intergenerational cultural issues as well - different values, likes and dislikes, etc. You might point out that its just the sex, but most women need more of a connection to maximize the intimacy. The hip-hop music in the background and calling her "babygirl" might not be what works.

There is also the balance of stamina against experience and control. Additionally, younger people more often (but not all) are less responsible. This is also an issue with single guys more generally. Fewer personal entanglements and responsibilities makes it difficult to appreciate the importance of some values of those who are fully laden with them. There is a sense that there is too young, as much as there is too old. There is also a variable concern that the guy will say anything to get some and will lie about things like STD testing. Also worth nopting is that many women experientially know there is more of a risk of stalkers with younger men.

It's not a personal judgment on an individual or even the whole class, but a sense of comfort that is needed to relax and enjoy the play. Each woman is different, but the need for more than just a large, hard, capable cock is pretty universal. Don't stress it though. There are plenty out here and he circumstances aligning right just sometimes take time and patience.

Mariposa Blanca 07-24-2013 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by JandGinSD (Post 55546)
The point of very young being the age of some of our kids is a psychological barrier that has to be understood and respected. There are just plain intergenerational cultural issues as well - different values, likes and dislikes, etc. You might point out that its just the sex, but most women need more of a connection to maximize the intimacy. The hip-hop music in the background and calling her "babygirl" might not be what works.

There is also the balance of stamina against experience and control. Additionally, younger people more often (but not all) are less responsible. This is also an issue with single guys more generally. Fewer personal entanglements and responsibilities makes it difficult to appreciate the importance of some values of those who are fully laden with them. There is a sense that there is too young, as much as there is too old. There is also a variable concern that the guy will say anything to get some and will lie about things like STD testing. Also worth nopting is that many women experientially know there is more of a risk of stalkers with younger men.

It's not a personal judgment on an individual or even the whole class, but a sense of comfort that is needed to relax and enjoy the play. Each woman is different, but the need for more than just a large, hard, capable cock is pretty universal. Don't stress it though. There are plenty out here and he circumstances aligning right just sometimes take time and patience.

You bring up some incredibly valid points!!


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