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Truly, we've been at this for many years and we've had our fair share of success in finding the type of Black males we seek. However, that being said, it also seems as if the vast majority of peple on sites like AFF, SLS and this site are only interested in "jerk off" material whether that comes in the form of pictures, videos or written fantasies.

We have a process. We exchange emails with a person, proceed to phone calls/texts and then arrange a face-to-face meeting in a vanilla environment. If things go well at that meeting, then the next time we meet, sex WILL be on the agenda as long as the BM does not become a total jerk and asshole. The emails must show the person being considered can string together a coherent thought...so "let's fuck" or "I'm up for it, let's go" emails go in the trash.

The art of seduction seems to be lost on some people. We realize there are some BMs who are only interested in notching their bedposts and that is fine; however, you're not the BM we are looking for, so don't waste our time or yours. We prefer long-term relationships with our BMs; it allows us to explore many vistas among the three of us. We've had a few long-term relationships with great BMs and they've been very satisfying. They all began with him seducing the wife and getting her into bed...seems logical, but sometimes the guy freezes up and she has to take the lead. Not good. Being a man in the bedroom means taking the lead; that doesn't mean being in charge or control; in our bedroom, all are equal participants, but men are expected to take the lead and guide the action along with her. Makes sense, yes?

Bottomline is this: we hope to hear from some BMs who are both serious about meeting AND possess the mental facities to express same in a coherent, literate email. Otherwise, we will resign ourselves to the fact that, evidently, the only type of people who frequent this site, and others like it, are just here to find material to jerk off to and don't really have interest in meeting and seeing if there exists any compatibility among all parties.