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[beckyluvsblk]

well it happens,,,but we have a date set up for next saturday,,the 15 of december,,,hes black,,hes dom,,,we met him 2 yrs ago,,right before he moved to california,,but he just moved back to pittsburgh,,lost the job he took out there,,called his old boss back here and got rehired,,so he called us,,,and wanted to know if we need his services,,,,we said YES,,so hope fully we are going to get what we deserve,,hes going to take control of us and hopefullly like he told us on the phone we are going to get more than we bargined for,,,hope fully hes right,,,cant wait for saturday,,,,,any one who wants to know how it goes,,check our posts,,,xoxo,,becky and rob

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

I totally agree that there are fake guys here but I'm willing to bet 8 out of 10 guys who say they are BLACK are indeed real. The way i see it is that the real blk men are the potential victims here. It's like open season on all the real blk men.

I'm sorry that you were stood up so many times. My advice to you is get their asses on cam. If they want what you have bad enough then they will turn their cam on. Even a verified pic is better than nothing but to the untrained eye even those can be faked. Once again cam is the best way to go. Don't accept no bullshit lies like oh it's broke or my dog ate it. Oh and when you get them on cam, direct them to hold up a certain amount of fingers or stick out their tongue. Lol the reason I say this is because some fakes will actually play a video and you may think your looking at that guy but your actually still being lied too.

Start dealing with different type of men!!! Stop being so thirsty, that makes it really easy for the fakes to screw with you.

Knocking on wood. I haven't ever been stood up. Not saying it's wont ever happen but chances are slim because I don't deal with fake BS, I deal with real men!! I'm speaking of men who respect me and my time. The real deal men.

Really sorry that you had those bad experiences but take what you learned and move on. ��

Oh and SMOOCHES for posting. ��

[Lovingsex2012]

Mustang, our worry is that we need to be discreet. I do understand getting tired of the fakes. I notice that most of the responses here gripe about white men disguising themselves as women, but there are tons of black men getting on here disguised as white men as well, trying to make white men look bad. There are a bunch that try to make black men look bad and racist as hell on here when I know that the ones we are friends with are not like that at all. They dont go around talking about superiority or breeding or any of that stuff. They just enjoy sex like the rest of us. We have had many respond and my wife has enjoyed meeting up with some of them. Again, there was no jerky attitudes at all.

With all this said, anyone can steal pics and post them as themselves. I dont know if there is a true way to weed the fake white and black men out. Believe me. I wish there were. I get sick of seeing it all.

[Lovingsex2012]

Oh, and I forgot to add, if you are on web cam, can they not record you? We wouldnt care to do that, but thats putting alot of trust in someone you just met. We just really have to be discrete.

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by Lovingsex2012

Oh, and I forgot to add, if you are on web cam, can they not record you? We wouldnt care to do that, but thats putting alot of trust in someone you just met. We just really have to be discrete.

Yea, I'm sure there could be a way for them to record you, does it really matter? Your just gonna say hi.. What could he possibly do with that? Just aslong as you're not wearing a slut suit and hubby in a cuck cage.... I mean really, people say hi all the time.. It's normal.. Well as as long as you don't have a ILOVEINTERRACIAL.COM banner behinds ya'lls heads..
Say hi, verify and keep it moving..

I think its a bit funny that y'all are willing to let a man into your bedroom but nervous to hop on cam because of trust issues. .

If you"re really worried about it tell him you want to view his cam first.. If he is fake then don't let him into your cam...



@ the couple that sent me the loooooooong PM, could you please resend it. I accidentally deleted it.. Thanks.

[hoMichelle4bbc]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

Yea, I'm sure there could be a way for them to record you, does it really matter?

I think its a bit funny that y'all are willing to let a man into your bedroom but nervous to hop on cam because of trust issues. .

Hubby (slydog) comment:

Easily recorded, and streamed too. Yes, it matters, any corroborating breadcrumb in a trail has evidentiary value.

Trust ain't the issue, probative material evidence compromising discretion and leading to real life exposure is. As an example, one might trust another, but that trust does not extend to the other's spouse (or others you were unaware of) and her/their team of attorneys armed with the rules of Discovery, subpoenas, and/or court ordered eDiscovery, and etc. on a moral turpitude character assassination mission in a marital or custody case.

Any couple would certainly be more than uncomfortable in a 7 hour (allowed by rules) video deposition (with SDT - subpoena duces tecum ordering surrender of copies of all communications, emails, voice mails, etc., etc.) if they were inadvertently caught in the middle of another’s drama. In a deposition, counsel for the Plaintiff can ask you anything they want, your whole life history, and you have to answer or be held in contempt. It is worse than open court where the Judge is a referee and determines admissibility, etc. There is no referee in deposition and it is all public record. I’m certain nobody here would be comfortable on the stand in open court discussing activities related to participation in this site or another’s “moral turpitude” either.

Control risk, or risk control.

I/We will say no more in this thread.

[CaliBlk4U]

Wow... I understand the need to protect one's privacy and all of that, but I can't help but wonder about the people who take that to the extreme.

Sure, you're taking a chance by putting too much out there online... but look where you all are -- online. This isn't an in-person, meet-n-greet, where you can exchange ID's and STD test results in realtime. These digital checks (photos, etc) are pretty much all we have to go on initially.

The question I'm always thinking when I hear/read that people are unwilling to provide proof of who they are is; what else are they not saying? Even if they turn out to be "real", what else might they be holding back, presumably for the sake of their own privacy? Could those be things that I really should know before I commit to meeting strangers, in some strange place, in order to do (possibly) strange things?

You see, what some of you don't seem to get is that there actually needs to be at least the appearance of trust for all of this to actually end up with everybody hooking up... Hell, even an escort won't return your call if your number is blocked. Are you going to give the black men here at least that much consideration? Or should we just fly completely blind all of the time?

One last thought... If the idea of anyone finding out about your black cock fetish is so earth shatteringly, god awful scary for you, maybe it's just not the lifestyle for you.

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by CaliBlk4U

Wow... I understand the need to protect one's privacy and all of that, but I can't help but wonder about the people who take that to the extreme.

Sure, you're taking a chance by putting too much out there online... but look where you all are -- online. This isn't an in-person, meet-n-greet, where you can exchange ID's and STD test results in realtime. These digital checks (photos, etc) are pretty much all we have to go on initially.

The question I'm always thinking when I hear/read that people are unwilling to provide proof of who they are is; what else are they not saying? Even if they turn out to be "real", what else might they be holding back, presumably for the sake of their own privacy? Could those be things that I really should know before I commit to meeting strangers, in some strange place, in order to do (possibly) strange things?

You see, what some of you don't seem to get is that there actually needs to be at least the appearance of trust for all of this to actually end up with everybody hooking up... Hell, even an escort won't return your call if your number is blocked. Are you going to give the black men here at least that much consideration? Or should we just fly completely blind all of the time?

One last thought... If the idea of anyone finding out about your black cock fetish is so earth shatteringly, god awful scary for you, maybe it's just not the lifestyle for you.

Now that's real talk!! Thanks Cali, for sharing your thoughts on this matter..

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by hoMichelle4bbc

Hubby (slydog) comment:

Easily recorded, and streamed too. Yes, it matters, any corroborating breadcrumb in a trail has evidentiary value.

Trust ain't the issue, probative material evidence compromising discretion and leading to real life exposure is. As an example, one might trust another, but that trust does not extend to the other's spouse (or others you were unaware of) and her/their team of attorneys armed with the rules of Discovery, subpoenas, and/or court ordered eDiscovery, and etc. on a moral turpitude character assassination mission in a marital or custody case.

Any couple would certainly be more than uncomfortable in a 7 hour (allowed by rules) video deposition (with SDT - subpoena duces tecum ordering surrender of copies of all communications, emails, voice mails, etc., etc.) if they were inadvertently caught in the middle of another’s drama. In a deposition, counsel for the Plaintiff can ask you anything they want, your whole life history, and you have to answer or be held in contempt. It is worse than open court where the Judge is a referee and determines admissibility, etc. There is no referee in deposition and it is all public record. I’m certain nobody here would be comfortable on the stand in open court discussing activities related to participation in this site or another’s “moral turpitude” either.

Control risk, or risk control.

I/We will say no more in this thread.

Lol, I'm really not sure what to say to your reply. I have read it 3x and still not sure if I wanna say something smart ass or feel sad that you are that paranoid that big brother is watching all post on porn sites. If you truly feel that way then why are you here? Just because you're not validated doesn't mean a thing. There is footprints no matter what and in today's age they can trace you back here if they wanted. If your so worried about those risk, why are you even on ili?

Not illegal to be here, you just worried that if your ever dragged into court (for whatever reason) you don't want them learning of y'all's BBC desires. Geesh would that be such a bad thing? If so then maybe y'all need to start playing with BWC and leave those BBC to me. 😊 Lol

[Lovingsex2012]

The biggest thing with us is we just need to be discrete. We enjoy this and it works for us and we have been doing this successfully for a good while. There are probably more people desiring to be discrete than not. In any lifestyle. I understand the aggravation against the fake black and white guys on here, I really do, but I think they would be able to get in here no matter what.

[Helmetnuts]

hugs and smooches..miss ya sweetie